A Personal Journey...
to Reconnect with our Olim
By Harry M. Stuart
Israel's 56th anniversary is one Elaine and I will never
forget. We were in Israel to celebrate it with twenty-six of the friends
I grew up with in Australia - the Olim. The decision to make this eventful journey
was not made without coercion - Leah Feder's visit to Philadelphia some
two years ago 'greased the skids' and her 'reminders' from time to time
finally gained success. Our visit was very short due to travel
arrangements and business commitments. But, in those 6 days, with the
help of Jack and Rosette Mirjam's annual OzBash (party) and a
SnagFest (BBQ) hosted by Effie (Jack) and Felicity Jacobi, we maximized our ability to
meet everyone.
On Arrival
On our arrival on Sunday morning, Hedva Sheiner (Frida Goldstein) and Leah picked us up from
the airport and whisked us away to Jaffo for coffee and tea - a
wonderful way to start our stay.
Yom Hazikaron
This time of year has particular significance for both Elaine and me.
The bitter-sweet period of Yom Hazikaron and Yom Haatzmaut allowed us to
mourn together for the thousands that have died - and are still dying -
to defend the State of Israel. Our arrival day was on Yom Hazikaron and
that evening we attended a remembrance service with Leah at the Miami
Beach Community Centre in Ramat Gan. The audience numbered about 1,500
and, even with a significant number of young people in the
audience, throughout the next hour you could hear a pin drop.
At 8:15 pm with the wail of the air raid sirens, the country stood still
for one minute - and the ceremony commenced.
Yom Haatzmaut
The next evening, following the TV broadcast of the State celebrations, Yom Haatzmaut - and the parties -
commenced. In all, we made contact with
twenty-six of my fellow (ex) Betarim, most of whom are pictured in the
Rogues Gallery.
So - who held the record for the people with whom I was separated
the longest? There was a couple
that I had not seen since I was 14 years old. The last time we saw
one another was the year I started high school and attended, the Olympic Games in Melbourne. That
was was 48 years ago when Yosef and Dora went on aliyah - 1956! I
think the time I last saw Theo Balberyszki and Jack Mirjam would
also approach that number.
There were occasions in the past 20 years or so when Jack Mirjam and I
were 'in the vicinity' of each other. He, Rosette and Shimon Addess, I
believe, were
wandering around above us (in Canada). Rosette reminded me that Brian Rudzki
and I did 'bump into her' in Melbourne some time in the 1980s when
our schedules seemed to coincide.
Reconnectees - the complete list
All in all, here's a complete list of our reconnectees, not in any
particular order, most appearing the the
Rogues Gallery:
Leah Feder, Hedva Sheiner (Frida Goldstein), Yosef and
Dora Steiner, Jack and Rosette Mirjam, Shim and Pearla Feder, Theo
Balberyszki, Henry and Ros Ben Ezra (Bishopverder), Shimon (Brian) Addess, Danny
and Heather Rosing, Celia and Leo Regev (Rogovin), Mervyn and Sue Doobov, Solly
and Rosalie Goldstein, Leon Kempler (Rosalie's brother), and a few
surprises (for me, not for them): Max Oren (Streubel), Lionel Bomzon (Flapper - not his maiden
name, by the way), and Miriam (Deston) and Henry Briggs. Although
Jack and Jocelyn Goldberg were not in Betar, I knew them socially
from the old days in Melbourne. [We spent a wonderful evening with them and Jocelyn's parents and
sister - but that's a story for another time - when the pictures
arrive.]
Also attending the OzBash was Miriam Golovesky, the widow of one of our
Shlichim Chaim Golovesky. Effie (Jack) and Felicity Jacobi hosted the next
day's SnagFest in their Australian home near Netanya (correct me
on the location - the Hebrew directional signs were hard for me - I
could never get past the first letter before we saw the next sign).
Yosef and
Dora’s Dinner
On Wednesday
night of that week we were treated to a wonderful dinner at Yosef and Dora’s home. My last
remembrance of them was the one I had in my head captured from the 1955/56
Kinglake West mizdar photos [that appear in
Shim's and my
collections]. The amazing part
of that evening was being able to see, and digitally capture, Yosef’s meticulously created and maintained
archives of Betar's history in the years of 1948 through 1956 –
six volumes of newspaper articles, photos and artifacts in plastic pages. We
spent hours leafing through the pages and talking about the events and
politics of that era. The captured material will need a little work but
eventually will be published
in the The Past
section on this site. For those that lived through that era, lots of memories may be
unleashed – lots of questions may be answered.
A Day In
Netanya
The Bishes
invited us out to their home on Thursday. We took the train up to Netanya
and followed Bish’s instructions to the letter: “When you get off the train,
go up the stairs, turn left and I’ll be waiting in the parking lot”. When our
wanderings instead took us through a parking lot with no Bish which then
turned into an industrial area, we ultimately decided
to try the other side of the station – where we found Bish calmly waiting
for us thinking we were on the next train from Tel Aviv. His response: “I meant
for you to turn to the other left”.
Nevertheless, we saw Netanya for the first time and had a wonderful BBQ
lunch at their home. That afternoon we chatted on the phone with Dov Rosenfeld who had just arrived in Israel.
A couple of days too late, Dov!
The Dell
Test
Since we were
traveling and since I am always thinking about technology and how it can be
improved, I asked
Dell (wink wink) if they would like me to conduct some torture tests on my two-year-old laptop while I was in Israel. I
had to think of some unique tests that the computer would not normally be
subjected to in the States. So, I chose the following protocols:
1. Six
foot train drop test. Place the laptop inside a bag (along with some
cameras to give it a little more weight) and place in the luggage rack of a
speeding suburban train. The one from Tel Aviv to Beit Shemesh would be
perfect. When the train lurches enough, let the bag make a
wide arc and drop on to the floor. Open the bag – test the computer and see
if the hard disk still operates. First test: successful. The laptop still
worked.
2. Canon
shot test. Place the same bag inside an x-ray machine at an airport, Ben Gurion
being handy. Make sure that it is still loaded with cameras and a few more
metal things in it to really give it mass. Stand back while the machine slowly draws the bag into its
barrel and then watch it shoot the bag out of the other end into a small
wall so that it makes a sudden 6-g stop. Second test: successful. The laptop
still worked.
3. Let it
stew. Wait 48 hours until after you arrive home. Start the laptop. If
the message comes up: ‘Hard disk not found’, then the laptop test failed.
The laptop test failed. Report to Michael Dell who will send out a new disk
drive - definitely of a totally different configuration to ensure that the restore of the back upped
data will fail. Take 10 hours out of your life and reload all operating systems, applications and data and
continue computing.
4. Decide not
to make the same offer again.
Connections with a family lost
The culmination of our visit was a (re)connection with a family I didn't
know I had six weeks before this trip. Through continuing genealogy research
on the internet,
a not-known-about
2nd cousin and I found each other. By coincidence, our family names are
the same - anglicized independently by our fathers when we were at a
very young age. Simon Stuart, as we found out, lives in Israel with his family and on this trip we met for
the first time - in Beit Shemesh (the site of the Dell computer test
#1). Through our meeting we now have contact with several other
cousins who live in London, New York and Florida - and we were able to
trace our families back through Krackow, Poland, to 1752!
All-in-all, it was a wonderful week - meeting old family and new family
- some related by blood, some by life-long friendship.